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Do you know who your friends are?

Friends.
What are friends for? Everyone in our lives will question their friends from time to time.

Always take time to evaluate your friends list/circle/group

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Who is your true friend?

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What makes a true friend?

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What happens when you find out your friend isn’t so great after all? Let-go.

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How do true friends act, or make you feel?

bulletpoint_bullet_listicon_shape_bulletfont_glyph_typography_bullet_point_customshape_wingding_custom_flag_nation_arrival_business_competition_deadline_destination_end_finish_goal_location-512They make you feel valuable – You are needed, important, and you are not left out. A true friend will always make time for you even when they could be the busiest person in the world.

bulletpoint_bullet_listicon_shape_bulletfont_glyph_typography_bullet_point_customshape_wingding_custom_flag_nation_arrival_business_competition_deadline_destination_end_finish_goal_location-512They support you – Giving you positivity, and motivation in times of need. They look out for you when you need good vibes.
bulletpoint_bullet_listicon_shape_bulletfont_glyph_typography_bullet_point_customshape_wingding_custom_flag_nation_arrival_business_competition_deadline_destination_end_finish_goal_location-512They communicate with you – Your true friend will have open communication with you. Nothing has to be a secret. Trust is there. They will not lie to you about small, or big things.
bulletpoint_bullet_listicon_shape_bulletfont_glyph_typography_bullet_point_customshape_wingding_custom_flag_nation_arrival_business_competition_deadline_destination_end_finish_goal_location-512They stay true to their word – Your true friends will not go back on their promises, but even if something did happen, you have that open communication where they’d explain with %100 honesty.
bulletpoint_bullet_listicon_shape_bulletfont_glyph_typography_bullet_point_customshape_wingding_custom_flag_nation_arrival_business_competition_deadline_destination_end_finish_goal_location-512They don’t take advantage of you – Your true friends will not use you for favors, such as money, a ride, convienance of hanging out when they’re bored, or just to hang with you for some sort of popularity.

 

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Push Yourself

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We get upset about how life is turning out, but forget

we hold the key to

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Feeling upset? canva-arrow-mab5nccl-pw Change how you feel.
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You feel like things aren’t getting done? canva-arrow-mab5nccl-pw Maybe it isn’t so pick yourself up, and do something about it.

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Stuck on a problem? canva-arrow-mab5nccl-pw Set goals, make a routine, write down steps, don’t give up.
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Can’t think straight?
canva-arrow-mab5nccl-pw Take a shower, take a walk, take a break.

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It may seem hard to do all this..to pick yourself up when you feel your lowest.
I know it can be hard, but at least try.
You’re worth it.
Tell yourself you’re worth it.
Don’t give up on yourself even when you feel like the entire world has given up on you.
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Do not over-TAC (Think, Assume, Compare)

Everything is so different when you’re dating someone new. I was in a relationship for 5 years and we became so close that even the silence was beautiful together. We couldnt pull through , and didn’t work out. Very heart breaking to know that after all the years loving this one person, the love just couldn’t continue. I’m dating an amazing man now, but I find it very difficult. I find myself comparing at times, and I wish I didn’t. They are two different individuals with different thinking , emotions, and more. At times I find myself anxious and nervous because I feel as though I am boring my boyfriend. I don’t know how he feels when we are silent also. Our relationship hasn’t been that long, and I’m fearing about these small things. I’d have to take my small deep breathes, and realize with patience and time, our love will grow stronger. I was worrying about things I couldn’t control , such as the silence, days we didn’t have much to do , and more. remember this quote “you don’t miss the water until the well runs dry”. I realized that my boyfriend does make me happy, and if we are doing amazing so just imagine what months, and years down the line will bring.

Do not over assume, over think, and compare. It brings a negative mind, and toxcity to your thoughts.

Have a clear mind. Focus on the nows. You don’t know what you have till its gone, but you knew exactly what you had, and just took it for granted.

As everyone has heard of this quote “live as though it is your last days” so you should love as though it is your last days.

Ocams Razor. Keep it simple stupid.

Do not over-TAC (Think, Assume, Compare)